Another part of the DC culture that we're trying to get used to is the love of dogs. While we absolutely love ours and come from Vashon, where dogs' rights are a point of intense community discourse, we also are used to humans interacting with each other as well as the dogs. We've found that here, many in the community knew Rosie even before she arrived and enthusiastically greeted her on the street and in the dog park. During most of these encounters, I'd watch as the person talked on and on about their dog, asked questions about Rosie and, as they were about to depart, I'd introduce myself. The first time I did this the woman said "Oh, I'll remember the dog, you know how it is". Another woman spent some time telling me about her dogs and admiring Rosie, then launched into a long and very personal story. At the end, I felt awkward that she had shared so much without even telling me her name, so I asked her name and gave her mine. She seemed a bit taken aback, like it hadn't occurred to her to introduce herself. Others haven't been quite so blunt, but it is clear that the people aren't so interested in knowing the person behind the dog, they just want to know the dog. I have to wonder if this is some "safe"way to be out and about and have social interaction without having to actually put yourself out to another person. I'm not sure, but I find it intriguing.
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